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<blockquote data-quote="Despairing Mom" data-source="post: 742556" data-attributes="member: 23412"><p>As I am the member whose posts are being inaccurately described here, I'm going to participate in this discussion. </p><p></p><p>1. I did not diagnose Smithmom's child. I posted a link to the DSM criteria for Smithmom to read. I made ZERO comment about that link. ZERO. Go back and read my post and stop distorting it saying that I diagnosed her child. If I provide you a link to a recipe, does that mean that I diagnosed you as a terrible cook? No, that's a communication distortion. </p><p></p><p>2. I did not diagnose Copa. Copa intentionally took my sentence out of context to make me into a persecutor. Then she began to triangulate which made me the persecutor and herself into the rescuer of Smithmom. I identified these actions as Borderline (BPD) behaviors because they were. Don't believe me? Google communication distortions, triangulation, and Borderline (BPD). </p><p></p><p>3. I did not tell Smithmom her child was evil. Here is my exact post, so this distortion can also end. </p><p><em>It's more than just setting a boundary. Smithmom's son asked her to provide the name of a female whom he intends to harass or possibly emotionally or physically harm (have someone outside of prison hurt her). This makes Smithmom an accomplice. Because she won't willingly become his accomplice in a possible crime, he is alienating her middle son. These are coercive, manipulative,<strong> <u>evil actions</u></strong>.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Despairing Mom, post: 742556, member: 23412"] As I am the member whose posts are being inaccurately described here, I'm going to participate in this discussion. 1. I did not diagnose Smithmom's child. I posted a link to the DSM criteria for Smithmom to read. I made ZERO comment about that link. ZERO. Go back and read my post and stop distorting it saying that I diagnosed her child. If I provide you a link to a recipe, does that mean that I diagnosed you as a terrible cook? No, that's a communication distortion. 2. I did not diagnose Copa. Copa intentionally took my[I] [/I]sentence out of context to make me into a persecutor. Then she began to triangulate which made me the persecutor and herself into the rescuer of Smithmom. I identified these actions as Borderline (BPD) behaviors because they were. Don't believe me? Google communication distortions, triangulation, and Borderline (BPD). 3. I did not tell Smithmom her child was evil. Here is my exact post, so this distortion can also end. [I]It's more than just setting a boundary. Smithmom's son asked her to provide the name of a female whom he intends to harass or possibly emotionally or physically harm (have someone outside of prison hurt her). This makes Smithmom an accomplice. Because she won't willingly become his accomplice in a possible crime, he is alienating her middle son. These are coercive, manipulative,[B] [U]evil actions[/U][/B].[/I] [I][/I] [/QUOTE]
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