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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 708478" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>So ready to live, i loved your post,,,for all of us. Oh, unless a nineteen year old were dangerous, id still try, although I dont think trying with money is good, but id stick around emotionally. </p><p></p><p>At 29 and with me in my 60s, i would not give up any more time or my special years in this lifetime with even a disabled child if that 29 year old refused community services. There IS help...but you can lead a horse to water (services) but ypu cant force him to take the assistance or comply with their rules.</p><p></p><p>My problem child is 39. He is much better to me now that I hang up at the first sign of abuse. He wants to talk to me so he tries harder. I am planning to visit St. Louis in June mostly to see my grandson. This was something I was iffy about doing even a year ago but im not afraid to go now. And grandson adores my son because so far he has treated him very well and grandson is s brilliant young boy with a loving soul. I Skype him, but I want to hug him.</p><p></p><p>But I wont let this 39 year old man abuse me anymore and he could never live with me no matter what. He has mental health issues but at 39 he can take care of them himself. Or not. I dont get involved or nag him. Useless. Doesnt make him get the help.</p><p></p><p>But at 19 i still tried yo steer him right until he corned me and spat in my face and tertorized me.</p><p></p><p>We can only do so much and I feel my senior years are years for US. I want to make this life great, although totally believe we dont die in spirit and come back to live again until we get it right <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Doesnt mean I dont value THIS life!!!</p><p></p><p>Think of whether your help is help or enabling and live, live, live and have so much fun!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 708478, member: 1550"] So ready to live, i loved your post,,,for all of us. Oh, unless a nineteen year old were dangerous, id still try, although I dont think trying with money is good, but id stick around emotionally. At 29 and with me in my 60s, i would not give up any more time or my special years in this lifetime with even a disabled child if that 29 year old refused community services. There IS help...but you can lead a horse to water (services) but ypu cant force him to take the assistance or comply with their rules. My problem child is 39. He is much better to me now that I hang up at the first sign of abuse. He wants to talk to me so he tries harder. I am planning to visit St. Louis in June mostly to see my grandson. This was something I was iffy about doing even a year ago but im not afraid to go now. And grandson adores my son because so far he has treated him very well and grandson is s brilliant young boy with a loving soul. I Skype him, but I want to hug him. But I wont let this 39 year old man abuse me anymore and he could never live with me no matter what. He has mental health issues but at 39 he can take care of them himself. Or not. I dont get involved or nag him. Useless. Doesnt make him get the help. But at 19 i still tried yo steer him right until he corned me and spat in my face and tertorized me. We can only do so much and I feel my senior years are years for US. I want to make this life great, although totally believe we dont die in spirit and come back to live again until we get it right :) Doesnt mean I dont value THIS life!!! Think of whether your help is help or enabling and live, live, live and have so much fun!!! [/QUOTE]
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