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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 469532" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>The guy she thought I was dating was the best. I had easy child 1 rebuild a bunch of gates around the farm for me, and this guy had helped me dig holes to replace the gate posts and then rehang the gates, so over the course of a couple/three weekends, we'd been together several times. To thank him, I bought supper each of those nights. (and in small town USA, that's means you're dating). He's still a friend. He called me up after she called him and said "Like, WTH? Why would I care?" lol</p><p></p><p>Bio is a miserable, unhappy person. Once upon a time before she and husband split, I gave her that Dr Phil book "Self matters" or something like that. Personally, I thought it was a pretty good book. Premise of the book is that if you change the way you act and react, it changes the way people treat you, by changing how THEY react to you. She took it, said she'd read it, and when I handed it to her, asked what part to start with to change husband fastest. She still doesn't get that you can't make someone else change, and to my knowledge, still expects someone else to make her happy (thus, she is <em>miserable,</em> and has been for a long, long time. ExMIL knew her in high school - she said she hasn't changed a lick.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 469532, member: 1848"] The guy she thought I was dating was the best. I had easy child 1 rebuild a bunch of gates around the farm for me, and this guy had helped me dig holes to replace the gate posts and then rehang the gates, so over the course of a couple/three weekends, we'd been together several times. To thank him, I bought supper each of those nights. (and in small town USA, that's means you're dating). He's still a friend. He called me up after she called him and said "Like, WTH? Why would I care?" lol Bio is a miserable, unhappy person. Once upon a time before she and husband split, I gave her that Dr Phil book "Self matters" or something like that. Personally, I thought it was a pretty good book. Premise of the book is that if you change the way you act and react, it changes the way people treat you, by changing how THEY react to you. She took it, said she'd read it, and when I handed it to her, asked what part to start with to change husband fastest. She still doesn't get that you can't make someone else change, and to my knowledge, still expects someone else to make her happy (thus, she is [I]miserable,[/I] and has been for a long, long time. ExMIL knew her in high school - she said she hasn't changed a lick.) [/QUOTE]
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