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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 123706" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>Glad you tested him and sorry he tested positive. You did the right thing by reporting to PO. PO may ignore the information, but that's PO's call. Just wanted to add that just because he talks about it on the computer doesn't actually mean that is what is going on. I would not let him know you have the info or how you got it, cause then you will lose your "info line", but keep him off balance by letting him know you are watching and you will be drug testing.....as you have done. Some difficult child's talk bigger than the activities they are actually doing, so don't rush in with the drug test every time...but he needs to know where the line is.....are you prepared to deal with consequences? How many dirty tests means he leaves home? You need to go over the answers with husband because these things always happen when they are out of town....been there done that......best of luck.......thinking of you......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 123706, member: 53"] Glad you tested him and sorry he tested positive. You did the right thing by reporting to PO. PO may ignore the information, but that's PO's call. Just wanted to add that just because he talks about it on the computer doesn't actually mean that is what is going on. I would not let him know you have the info or how you got it, cause then you will lose your "info line", but keep him off balance by letting him know you are watching and you will be drug testing.....as you have done. Some difficult child's talk bigger than the activities they are actually doing, so don't rush in with the drug test every time...but he needs to know where the line is.....are you prepared to deal with consequences? How many dirty tests means he leaves home? You need to go over the answers with husband because these things always happen when they are out of town....been there done that......best of luck.......thinking of you...... [/QUOTE]
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