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<blockquote data-quote="Marg's Man" data-source="post: 325404" data-attributes="member: 4085"><p>Marg said </p><p>I remember this well - I was just as shattered as Marg.</p><p></p><p>I didn't scold him in the normal sense much at all. </p><p></p><p>What I DID do was give him a speech about trust and how OUR trust was one of the most important things he could have. He quickly realised I was right. But he had destroyed our trust in him and now he had to earn it back and there was only one way he could do so. </p><p></p><p>He had to prove, to our satisfaction that he could be trusted. For a long time he was not trusted, then we gave him small proofs of our trust that showed as time passed he was regaining our trust.</p><p></p><p>It took about six months in all but, as Marg said, it was a lesson well learned. Losing our trust, and knowing it was due to his own actions, was the most devastating punishment we could have devised.</p><p></p><p>Marg's Man</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marg's Man, post: 325404, member: 4085"] Marg said I remember this well - I was just as shattered as Marg. I didn't scold him in the normal sense much at all. What I DID do was give him a speech about trust and how OUR trust was one of the most important things he could have. He quickly realised I was right. But he had destroyed our trust in him and now he had to earn it back and there was only one way he could do so. He had to prove, to our satisfaction that he could be trusted. For a long time he was not trusted, then we gave him small proofs of our trust that showed as time passed he was regaining our trust. It took about six months in all but, as Marg said, it was a lesson well learned. Losing our trust, and knowing it was due to his own actions, was the most devastating punishment we could have devised. Marg's Man [/QUOTE]
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