Well, thank you kindly, all. in my opinion my personal talk show host person would be Recovering Enabler. Thanks for the update on her, Echo. I was getting worried. I could not have gotten through 36's horrid, scary behavior during his custody battle without her and several others, but especially her. If anyone talks to her tell her peace, and I wish her well. Tell her she is very valued.
Sometimes one can give out logical, good, sensible advice yet have trouble doing it when it involves ourselves 
