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Coping with grief after kicking difficult child out
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<blockquote data-quote="sadandlost" data-source="post: 628284" data-attributes="member: 18078"><p>difficult child doesn't engage with me at all. Not even to spew anger at me for kicking him out. I have seen him once in the past 6 weeks, for 5 minutes when I gave him a couple of journals that I had been keeping for him that have a lot of stuff about and by his dad in them. My therapist has advised me to really start talking about his dad to him. But he doesn't seem to want anything relating to truth about his life or any kind of truth. He won't even return texts anymore so I have decided not to try contacting him anymore, until he shows signs of wanting to engage. I don't know where he's staying, whether or not he will actually graduate this month. I know nothing about his life right now.....hence my grief. In some ways it's a relief that he's not here anymore, but the grief overwhelms the relief more often than not.</p><p></p><p>difficult child cannot get into our house. We made sure of that right away. I had concerns about ex boyfriend and still do......he is a private investigator for a living and I don't put anything past him, including hiring hackers to try to get information. He actually contacted my husband's ex wife to try to dig up dirt on him to make him out to be an abusive parent, but even she wouldn't engage with ex boyfriend, who she finds creepy. I have done everything I can to ostracize him from my family. Some of them get it, and some of them don't. The ones who don't, I don't communicate with. This thing has polarized my entire, already screwed up family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sadandlost, post: 628284, member: 18078"] difficult child doesn't engage with me at all. Not even to spew anger at me for kicking him out. I have seen him once in the past 6 weeks, for 5 minutes when I gave him a couple of journals that I had been keeping for him that have a lot of stuff about and by his dad in them. My therapist has advised me to really start talking about his dad to him. But he doesn't seem to want anything relating to truth about his life or any kind of truth. He won't even return texts anymore so I have decided not to try contacting him anymore, until he shows signs of wanting to engage. I don't know where he's staying, whether or not he will actually graduate this month. I know nothing about his life right now.....hence my grief. In some ways it's a relief that he's not here anymore, but the grief overwhelms the relief more often than not. difficult child cannot get into our house. We made sure of that right away. I had concerns about ex boyfriend and still do......he is a private investigator for a living and I don't put anything past him, including hiring hackers to try to get information. He actually contacted my husband's ex wife to try to dig up dirt on him to make him out to be an abusive parent, but even she wouldn't engage with ex boyfriend, who she finds creepy. I have done everything I can to ostracize him from my family. Some of them get it, and some of them don't. The ones who don't, I don't communicate with. This thing has polarized my entire, already screwed up family. [/QUOTE]
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