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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 349597" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>YES, you NEED the protective order. This will do more than one thing for you, one it will show the courts you are looking out for what is best for your children. Whether you love her or not, she ASSAULTED your child. Two, it will help with custody.</p><p> </p><p>Now honestly custody for a father isn't "normal" but it's very doable and with the DA... Well, honestly your wife is going to have to do a LOT of standing on her head and jumping through hoops. Child abuse is very much frowned upon by the court.</p><p> </p><p>I noticed you said "I would get a divorce at a drop of a hat if I was convinced that I could get custody of the kids." Hearing that - My suggestion is 1. Get a protection order. 2. File for emergency temporary full custody (should be part of CPO). 3. Find a lawyer and file. 4. Love your kids. <strong>Love them constantly.</strong> Prove to them it isn't their fault. Make sure they get to see their mother - though supervised (visitation center) is best. Don't tell them anything negative about her. Let them talk to you about their feelings. They might say they hate her. Remember hate is a strong emotion and cannot exist without love. And they WILL love her - she is their mother.</p><p> </p><p>I've learned all this the hard way...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 349597, member: 6705"] YES, you NEED the protective order. This will do more than one thing for you, one it will show the courts you are looking out for what is best for your children. Whether you love her or not, she ASSAULTED your child. Two, it will help with custody. Now honestly custody for a father isn't "normal" but it's very doable and with the DA... Well, honestly your wife is going to have to do a LOT of standing on her head and jumping through hoops. Child abuse is very much frowned upon by the court. I noticed you said "I would get a divorce at a drop of a hat if I was convinced that I could get custody of the kids." Hearing that - My suggestion is 1. Get a protection order. 2. File for emergency temporary full custody (should be part of CPO). 3. Find a lawyer and file. 4. Love your kids. [B]Love them constantly.[/B] Prove to them it isn't their fault. Make sure they get to see their mother - though supervised (visitation center) is best. Don't tell them anything negative about her. Let them talk to you about their feelings. They might say they hate her. Remember hate is a strong emotion and cannot exist without love. And they WILL love her - she is their mother. I've learned all this the hard way... [/QUOTE]
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