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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 356674" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>DO NOT - DO NOT send your kids on unsupervised visits with her. Find a park, watch from a distance (line of sight but out of earshot). If you let this go on, the judge will say, well, it's obviously not an issue in the past so why bring it up now?</p><p> </p><p>Get new locks for your doors. The mediator moved her out? KEEP HER OUT. I'm not trying to be a witch or mean, fact is she hurt your child, and <em>will do it again</em>. You cannot let this go on. She has no right to be in your home if she has been moved out. Call the local PD if you have to. Get it on paper. I know you want to have the least stress you can on the kids, but please realize that the kids are probably going to need therapy anyway (in my opinion, most <em>people</em> need therapy at least once in their lives, and double that for kids of an <em>amicable </em>divorce. This isn't one). I do know that the courts favor women more as a rule (though this isn't supposed to happen, it does - usually), but you are talking about the safety of the kids. Honestly it's in their best interests to <em>not</em> have to deal with her alone.</p><p> </p><p>Supervised by you at a distance (not at home), or by someone you trust (not her mother), or something like that. Please...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 356674, member: 6705"] DO NOT - DO NOT send your kids on unsupervised visits with her. Find a park, watch from a distance (line of sight but out of earshot). If you let this go on, the judge will say, well, it's obviously not an issue in the past so why bring it up now? Get new locks for your doors. The mediator moved her out? KEEP HER OUT. I'm not trying to be a witch or mean, fact is she hurt your child, and [I]will do it again[/I]. You cannot let this go on. She has no right to be in your home if she has been moved out. Call the local PD if you have to. Get it on paper. I know you want to have the least stress you can on the kids, but please realize that the kids are probably going to need therapy anyway (in my opinion, most [I]people[/I] need therapy at least once in their lives, and double that for kids of an [I]amicable [/I]divorce. This isn't one). I do know that the courts favor women more as a rule (though this isn't supposed to happen, it does - usually), but you are talking about the safety of the kids. Honestly it's in their best interests to [I]not[/I] have to deal with her alone. Supervised by you at a distance (not at home), or by someone you trust (not her mother), or something like that. Please... [/QUOTE]
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