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<blockquote data-quote="miles2go" data-source="post: 358706" data-attributes="member: 6374"><p>Should I change my lawyer?</p><p>She's a nice lady and all but I just wonder if she's aggressive (not quite the right word. Doesn't catch mice is what they say in my native tongue) enough. Part of it she's busy so doesn't get to my stuff quickly enough, she keeps giving me "we can do an ex parte but it could turn out worse for you", the court orders come out too ambiguous for PC5's preschool to deal with (some parts of the orders I kinda missed; wish someone pointed it out). Oh and I got "many mothers are crazy and we grow up with them", etc. -- reminded me of that recent Spanish movie where a battered wife's dad tells her to stay, "we all have our quirks, so that's his".</p><p>But I don't know, maybe I want too much from the legal process and things go at their speed and she's a good professional, just not that good at communicating to me risks and benefits of a particular move (and reluctant to give advice)?</p><p>Guess paying $300/hr I want a shark that will apply maximum pressure, am I dreaming?</p><p>I suppose custody evaluation will settle most things and she's reluctant to waste ammo before that? Perhaps she doesn't understand that with a raging bipolar unless you physically sit on him/her, they will continue to hurt themselves and others. </p><p>Have I mentioned she had another meltdown yesterday and tried to get PC5 from his preschool without supervision, so that the teachers witnessed her winding him up with "dad doesn't want me to pick you up" and then arguing with the director for at least 20-30 mins over the paragraphs of the court order? Left without easy child, haven't been heard from since.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="miles2go, post: 358706, member: 6374"] Should I change my lawyer? She's a nice lady and all but I just wonder if she's aggressive (not quite the right word. Doesn't catch mice is what they say in my native tongue) enough. Part of it she's busy so doesn't get to my stuff quickly enough, she keeps giving me "we can do an ex parte but it could turn out worse for you", the court orders come out too ambiguous for PC5's preschool to deal with (some parts of the orders I kinda missed; wish someone pointed it out). Oh and I got "many mothers are crazy and we grow up with them", etc. -- reminded me of that recent Spanish movie where a battered wife's dad tells her to stay, "we all have our quirks, so that's his". But I don't know, maybe I want too much from the legal process and things go at their speed and she's a good professional, just not that good at communicating to me risks and benefits of a particular move (and reluctant to give advice)? Guess paying $300/hr I want a shark that will apply maximum pressure, am I dreaming? I suppose custody evaluation will settle most things and she's reluctant to waste ammo before that? Perhaps she doesn't understand that with a raging bipolar unless you physically sit on him/her, they will continue to hurt themselves and others. Have I mentioned she had another meltdown yesterday and tried to get PC5 from his preschool without supervision, so that the teachers witnessed her winding him up with "dad doesn't want me to pick you up" and then arguing with the director for at least 20-30 mins over the paragraphs of the court order? Left without easy child, haven't been heard from since. [/QUOTE]
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