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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 358781" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Step is totally right. My bro divorced a few years ago. He is an awesome dad but was a lousy husband and HIDEOUS stepfather (actually drove his spoiled stepsons away to the point that even now they won't call their mom because she didn't stand up for them). My mother chose his lawyer, actually hired her before bro really wanted to file for anything. Bro wanted to just whine for awhile before doing something, but mom was afraid of losing custody/contact with her granddau. My mom chose the biggest meanest shark lawyer in town. IF my idiot gfgbro had just followed his atty's advice he would have had a LOT more than he got. She would have been able to use his ex's frequent lapses in sobriety to get more than the shared parenting 50/50 split that is the automatic standard custody decision here. My bro undercut his atty simply because he is difficult child and he REFUSES to follow anyone's instructions because he knows better in every situation.</p><p></p><p>We found his atty by asking other lawyers and divorced people who the sharkiest atty was. I highly suggest you do the same. For my bro, it has forced him to grow up. He had to back down from trying to dictate how his ex will handle their daughter and work WITH her. But in most situations she is not that bad. She is NOT like your wife, who changes on a dime. Right now they work together so if one is sick the other one will take niece for a few days with-o holding against the other one. YOU cannot do this. YOUR wife is a danger to the kids. Keep her off your property and as much away from the kids as you can. If her mom is not supervising visitation, document it and get your new atty to deal with it.</p><p></p><p>Ask friends/acquaintances who are divorced if they got all they wanted or if their ex did. Then ask for the atty of the "winning" party. Your atty just does not seem willing to do what you want and need him to do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 358781, member: 1233"] Step is totally right. My bro divorced a few years ago. He is an awesome dad but was a lousy husband and HIDEOUS stepfather (actually drove his spoiled stepsons away to the point that even now they won't call their mom because she didn't stand up for them). My mother chose his lawyer, actually hired her before bro really wanted to file for anything. Bro wanted to just whine for awhile before doing something, but mom was afraid of losing custody/contact with her granddau. My mom chose the biggest meanest shark lawyer in town. IF my idiot gfgbro had just followed his atty's advice he would have had a LOT more than he got. She would have been able to use his ex's frequent lapses in sobriety to get more than the shared parenting 50/50 split that is the automatic standard custody decision here. My bro undercut his atty simply because he is difficult child and he REFUSES to follow anyone's instructions because he knows better in every situation. We found his atty by asking other lawyers and divorced people who the sharkiest atty was. I highly suggest you do the same. For my bro, it has forced him to grow up. He had to back down from trying to dictate how his ex will handle their daughter and work WITH her. But in most situations she is not that bad. She is NOT like your wife, who changes on a dime. Right now they work together so if one is sick the other one will take niece for a few days with-o holding against the other one. YOU cannot do this. YOUR wife is a danger to the kids. Keep her off your property and as much away from the kids as you can. If her mom is not supervising visitation, document it and get your new atty to deal with it. Ask friends/acquaintances who are divorced if they got all they wanted or if their ex did. Then ask for the atty of the "winning" party. Your atty just does not seem willing to do what you want and need him to do. [/QUOTE]
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