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<blockquote data-quote="helpme" data-source="post: 359123" data-attributes="member: 8202"><p>You might make a phone call to the police station, voicing your concerns</p><p>about the situation. Asking for another method. Here, we have "exchanges",</p><p>slang for a building. Exchanges are setup with cameras and sign in sheets,</p><p>have child care, nurses, and a deputy to monitor the exhange. Our police stations</p><p>are too busy here, and these sites work well for a lot of parents. Drop off</p><p>"times" are 15 minutes for older kids and 30 minutes apart for younger kids.</p><p>So, since yours are younger, she drops them off at say 6:30 and stays with</p><p>them for 15 minutes until 6:45. She then leaves the building and parking lot,</p><p>and you pickup at 7:00. Any noticeable concerns, bruises, documentation,</p><p>medicines, etc are to be dealt with during her 15 minutes (6:30-6:45).</p><p>if she needs additional time, then she is to be at the exchange earlier than</p><p>6:30. Its a great setup, clearly explained to all parties (written verification)</p><p>and can even be court ordered here, with additional clauses to be</p><p>completed (evaluations) during the 15 minutes or more if needed. It also permits </p><p>documentation by qualified, heh, individuals. I've also heard parents have children</p><p>evaluated on the spot by their own lawyers and medical professionals after a</p><p>weekend of alleged abuse, and those witnesses appearing in court.</p><p>Another thing is that if the court order states "licensed insured driver",</p><p>the exhange will verify insurance and license information each and every</p><p>time the exchange occurrs (great for the alcoholics who pick up the kid</p><p>for the weekend, give it to grandparents, get Sunday drunk, and then</p><p>go off with the kid, drinking and driving their merry little way, to</p><p>"losing" their kid quicker than we can get into a courthouse for a court</p><p>date.</p><p></p><p>The same building that provides mandatory parenting</p><p>classes to anyone involved with a child and legal proceedings, divorce, or</p><p>otherwise.</p><p></p><p>I've also heard of others using a YMCA latchkey (after school daycare)</p><p>for exchanges that are open on Sunday night specifically for such situations.</p><p></p><p>Get a plan going that eliminates all these possibilities. You</p><p>know your wife the best, so setup and prepare for her nonsense b4hand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpme, post: 359123, member: 8202"] You might make a phone call to the police station, voicing your concerns about the situation. Asking for another method. Here, we have "exchanges", slang for a building. Exchanges are setup with cameras and sign in sheets, have child care, nurses, and a deputy to monitor the exhange. Our police stations are too busy here, and these sites work well for a lot of parents. Drop off "times" are 15 minutes for older kids and 30 minutes apart for younger kids. So, since yours are younger, she drops them off at say 6:30 and stays with them for 15 minutes until 6:45. She then leaves the building and parking lot, and you pickup at 7:00. Any noticeable concerns, bruises, documentation, medicines, etc are to be dealt with during her 15 minutes (6:30-6:45). if she needs additional time, then she is to be at the exchange earlier than 6:30. Its a great setup, clearly explained to all parties (written verification) and can even be court ordered here, with additional clauses to be completed (evaluations) during the 15 minutes or more if needed. It also permits documentation by qualified, heh, individuals. I've also heard parents have children evaluated on the spot by their own lawyers and medical professionals after a weekend of alleged abuse, and those witnesses appearing in court. Another thing is that if the court order states "licensed insured driver", the exhange will verify insurance and license information each and every time the exchange occurrs (great for the alcoholics who pick up the kid for the weekend, give it to grandparents, get Sunday drunk, and then go off with the kid, drinking and driving their merry little way, to "losing" their kid quicker than we can get into a courthouse for a court date. The same building that provides mandatory parenting classes to anyone involved with a child and legal proceedings, divorce, or otherwise. I've also heard of others using a YMCA latchkey (after school daycare) for exchanges that are open on Sunday night specifically for such situations. Get a plan going that eliminates all these possibilities. You know your wife the best, so setup and prepare for her nonsense b4hand. [/QUOTE]
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