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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 545210" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Well, you have 12 days of freedom right now, those 18 months aren't here yet, perhaps try to force yourself to get out of isolation mode and have the next 12 days to yourself with your SO, take all the difficult child-free moments you can get and ENJOY them. Tell your SO you're isolating and you need support to find your way back. Telling on ourselves breaks the spell of stuckness. You might have support from your new man during the 18 months which will make that whole experience so much easier for you. My SO has made raising my granddaughter a piece of cake compared to when it was just me, it's night and day. Just to have someone to talk to about parenting is worth it's weight in gold. Sometimes it's so hard with our kids, it's hard to look at the bright side, to see what we're grateful for, to understand another way other then the difficult child way, but we have to force ourselves out of the despair and live life, allow the serenity when you can and be grateful for the next 12 days, it's a gift right now. Come back to life....there are many waiting for you..........Hugs.............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 545210, member: 13542"] Well, you have 12 days of freedom right now, those 18 months aren't here yet, perhaps try to force yourself to get out of isolation mode and have the next 12 days to yourself with your SO, take all the difficult child-free moments you can get and ENJOY them. Tell your SO you're isolating and you need support to find your way back. Telling on ourselves breaks the spell of stuckness. You might have support from your new man during the 18 months which will make that whole experience so much easier for you. My SO has made raising my granddaughter a piece of cake compared to when it was just me, it's night and day. Just to have someone to talk to about parenting is worth it's weight in gold. Sometimes it's so hard with our kids, it's hard to look at the bright side, to see what we're grateful for, to understand another way other then the difficult child way, but we have to force ourselves out of the despair and live life, allow the serenity when you can and be grateful for the next 12 days, it's a gift right now. Come back to life....there are many waiting for you..........Hugs............. [/QUOTE]
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