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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 741058" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This poster can not take care of her mother who needs constant attention and I think the last sentence here was uncalled for.</p><p></p><p>The fact is, sadly this Mom has dementia and likely will end up in a retirement home and it is not a terrible place for us to put our loved ones when there is no other choice. When we cant care for them 24/7. When we work or are older ourselves. We will see how long this daughter can handle her. It hasnt been long yet and she has children. And she is already bitter a little. "You chose not to do it,Mom." Even when she had no option.</p><p></p><p>Let us not judge. I never want my kids or grands to care for me at home if I can no longer care for myself. I would rather go to a home. It is not evil to do not be able to care for an elderly relative who needs the care of an infant...24/7.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 741058, member: 1550"] This poster can not take care of her mother who needs constant attention and I think the last sentence here was uncalled for. The fact is, sadly this Mom has dementia and likely will end up in a retirement home and it is not a terrible place for us to put our loved ones when there is no other choice. When we cant care for them 24/7. When we work or are older ourselves. We will see how long this daughter can handle her. It hasnt been long yet and she has children. And she is already bitter a little. "You chose not to do it,Mom." Even when she had no option. Let us not judge. I never want my kids or grands to care for me at home if I can no longer care for myself. I would rather go to a home. It is not evil to do not be able to care for an elderly relative who needs the care of an infant...24/7. [/QUOTE]
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