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<blockquote data-quote="Winnielg" data-source="post: 584891" data-attributes="member: 16059"><p>I am not exactly sure. I guess as well as can be expected. We did not have to call the police or mobile crisis so I assume I should see this as positive. When husband laid out the plan details, all of which have the outcome of difficult child leaving the home by the end of June, difficult child just kept saying "We'll then just kick me out". I probably do not have to explain/detail to you guys the complete and utter denial, lack of personal responsibility and blame game that ensued on difficult child's behalf. </p><p></p><p>His big defense was that he has friends that he has emotionally, psychologically and verbally abused who have not deserted him as we are clearly doing. There is no reply to this as I know he barely talks to anyone outside the house and the social workers and Special Education teacher at school have said he has alienated most of the people at this new school ( he started there in Sept). The Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) therapist asked if he had ever physically assaulted any of these friends and difficult child kept insisting that clearly that was not the point but that his apparent abandonment by people who supposedly loved him was. </p><p></p><p>He then turned on the therapist with vileness for awhile declaring all the ways he was incompetent and did not know how to connect with his patients. </p><p></p><p>In the end, I am not really sure what reality difficult child created in order for him to get in the car and come home. All is peaceful right now. And we need to find a way to keep trying to teach him functional independence and feel safe until the end of June.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Winnielg, post: 584891, member: 16059"] I am not exactly sure. I guess as well as can be expected. We did not have to call the police or mobile crisis so I assume I should see this as positive. When husband laid out the plan details, all of which have the outcome of difficult child leaving the home by the end of June, difficult child just kept saying "We'll then just kick me out". I probably do not have to explain/detail to you guys the complete and utter denial, lack of personal responsibility and blame game that ensued on difficult child's behalf. His big defense was that he has friends that he has emotionally, psychologically and verbally abused who have not deserted him as we are clearly doing. There is no reply to this as I know he barely talks to anyone outside the house and the social workers and Special Education teacher at school have said he has alienated most of the people at this new school ( he started there in Sept). The Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) therapist asked if he had ever physically assaulted any of these friends and difficult child kept insisting that clearly that was not the point but that his apparent abandonment by people who supposedly loved him was. He then turned on the therapist with vileness for awhile declaring all the ways he was incompetent and did not know how to connect with his patients. In the end, I am not really sure what reality difficult child created in order for him to get in the car and come home. All is peaceful right now. And we need to find a way to keep trying to teach him functional independence and feel safe until the end of June. [/QUOTE]
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