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Daughter 24 stole from me
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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 680326" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>I would go a step further, I would have the boyfriend sit in on the "contract to repay". Not sure if he knows, if he is part of this or not. But he needs to know what your daughter did and where any money she makes needs to go- to you. I would, if it were me, go to a lawyer, have the lawyer draw up the contract and everyone meet at lawyers office. This is a lot of money that was stolen, a felony, grand theft. I think sitting around the kitchen table, in your home, won't have the same impact as it would at the lawyers office. If she doesn't pay it back within x amount of time, you will pursue charges. I suspect she has been stealing the money and buying the stuff for herself and there is no EBAY.</p><p></p><p>I would ask the boyfriend what all she has of value. Whatever she has like Gucci purses, she needs to sell them and give you the money. No, I take that back, she needs to give you the things and you sell them on ebay and the money goes towards the debt. She shouldn't be allowed to keep all those expensive nice things that were paid for with stolen money from you.</p><p></p><p>Trust- that will have to be earned back. She earns it back by getting counseling, paying back the money AND she needs to apologize to your other daughter for causing you to think she did it.</p><p></p><p>Very understandable for you to be mad, hurt right now. I wouldn't be getting over it anytime soon. When I am mad, I am mad and I need time to get through it all. I would say I love you but what you did was so disrespectful to me and the other members of the family and I need time to work through all of my feelings. Leave it at that.</p><p></p><p>Changing locks is good- and get a safe or keep your money in the bank from here on out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 680326, member: 19951"] I would go a step further, I would have the boyfriend sit in on the "contract to repay". Not sure if he knows, if he is part of this or not. But he needs to know what your daughter did and where any money she makes needs to go- to you. I would, if it were me, go to a lawyer, have the lawyer draw up the contract and everyone meet at lawyers office. This is a lot of money that was stolen, a felony, grand theft. I think sitting around the kitchen table, in your home, won't have the same impact as it would at the lawyers office. If she doesn't pay it back within x amount of time, you will pursue charges. I suspect she has been stealing the money and buying the stuff for herself and there is no EBAY. I would ask the boyfriend what all she has of value. Whatever she has like Gucci purses, she needs to sell them and give you the money. No, I take that back, she needs to give you the things and you sell them on ebay and the money goes towards the debt. She shouldn't be allowed to keep all those expensive nice things that were paid for with stolen money from you. Trust- that will have to be earned back. She earns it back by getting counseling, paying back the money AND she needs to apologize to your other daughter for causing you to think she did it. Very understandable for you to be mad, hurt right now. I wouldn't be getting over it anytime soon. When I am mad, I am mad and I need time to get through it all. I would say I love you but what you did was so disrespectful to me and the other members of the family and I need time to work through all of my feelings. Leave it at that. Changing locks is good- and get a safe or keep your money in the bank from here on out. [/QUOTE]
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