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Daughter 24 stole from me
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<blockquote data-quote="Sister's Keeper" data-source="post: 680360" data-attributes="member: 20051"><p>You said she has a lot of high end stuff, so I doubt her motivation is drugs. My sister is a drug addict and a thief, and never has a blessed thing to show for everything she has stolen, because she spends all the money on drugs.</p><p></p><p>I think everyone has given you solid advice, particularly on changing the locks and on a repayment contract. </p><p></p><p>I also think that there is nothing you can do to repair the relationship between your daughters. You daughter was the one that caused the damage, she is the on;y one that can repair it.</p><p></p><p>We discussed in another thread about letter writing. With computers and smart phones it is a lost art, but those of us with loved ones in jail are pretty skilled at it.</p><p>I am a fan of letter writing. You are able to express your feelings concisely, without emotion. You don't have to listen to excuses or arguments or apologies. Maybe it would be helpful for you to write you daughter a letter telling her exactly what her actions did to you and your family and how you feel and hand it to her as she is leaving.</p><p></p><p>It may be helpful for you to be able to get the feelings out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sister's Keeper, post: 680360, member: 20051"] You said she has a lot of high end stuff, so I doubt her motivation is drugs. My sister is a drug addict and a thief, and never has a blessed thing to show for everything she has stolen, because she spends all the money on drugs. I think everyone has given you solid advice, particularly on changing the locks and on a repayment contract. I also think that there is nothing you can do to repair the relationship between your daughters. You daughter was the one that caused the damage, she is the on;y one that can repair it. We discussed in another thread about letter writing. With computers and smart phones it is a lost art, but those of us with loved ones in jail are pretty skilled at it. I am a fan of letter writing. You are able to express your feelings concisely, without emotion. You don't have to listen to excuses or arguments or apologies. Maybe it would be helpful for you to write you daughter a letter telling her exactly what her actions did to you and your family and how you feel and hand it to her as she is leaving. It may be helpful for you to be able to get the feelings out. [/QUOTE]
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