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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 681442" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I do not agree with New Leaf and Albatross. I believe she did not think about the impact to you. I believe she had the impulse to take the money and she did. It might have happened that she believed there was no risk because she would pay it back before you knew. It may have entered her mind that you would not press charges if you found out.</p><p></p><p>My sister arranged that my mother's house be robbed, despite having no rightful power to enter her home, after she died. She felt entitled. She probably knew I would take no action against her.</p><p></p><p>I felt victimized. Even though I knew she could get into the house. I chose to not change the locks. Why I did that, is complicated even to me.You are making this up. This has no relation to what happened. She may have taken your money but she did not mean to hurt you. She just wanted the money. There was no intent to hurt.</p><p></p><p>I do not know how to explain it better.</p><p></p><p>Think about finding $10000 in the street. You pick it up. It belonged to somebody who is sick that they lost it. When you put it in your purse, the 10k, your intention is not to hurt the person who lost they money. Your intention was only to pocket the money.</p><p></p><p>I do not believe it was any different for your daughter.</p><p>While we wish she would have stopped to think about the consequences and the ramifications, she did not.</p><p>You are torturing yourself here. She does not put (or did not) the two things together. Self-gratification, yes. Love for her mother, yes.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 681442, member: 18958"] I do not agree with New Leaf and Albatross. I believe she did not think about the impact to you. I believe she had the impulse to take the money and she did. It might have happened that she believed there was no risk because she would pay it back before you knew. It may have entered her mind that you would not press charges if you found out. My sister arranged that my mother's house be robbed, despite having no rightful power to enter her home, after she died. She felt entitled. She probably knew I would take no action against her. I felt victimized. Even though I knew she could get into the house. I chose to not change the locks. Why I did that, is complicated even to me.You are making this up. This has no relation to what happened. She may have taken your money but she did not mean to hurt you. She just wanted the money. There was no intent to hurt. I do not know how to explain it better. Think about finding $10000 in the street. You pick it up. It belonged to somebody who is sick that they lost it. When you put it in your purse, the 10k, your intention is not to hurt the person who lost they money. Your intention was only to pocket the money. I do not believe it was any different for your daughter. While we wish she would have stopped to think about the consequences and the ramifications, she did not. You are torturing yourself here. She does not put (or did not) the two things together. Self-gratification, yes. Love for her mother, yes. COPA [/QUOTE]
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