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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 681751" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Devastated, these are good things.<em> She is working at it. </em>I agree with Copa, that it is good that she is feeling as she does. Remorse and regret drive us to repent and signal the need to right the wrong. It is hard to watch, but it is good. She needs to make amends for her transgression and her feelings are driving her to do this.</p><p></p><p> You are still hurting. We are only human. It is a terrible thing that happened. I do not think our d cs intentionally cause us pain with the choices they make. They are caught up in whatever addiction is driving them.</p><p>It still hurts us. Tremendously.</p><p>Work through your feelings. Be honest with yourself. Keep posting. It is all a process.</p><p>You are a person with value and worth, a mother who has been hurt by this act of your daughter.</p><p>It rocks our foundation like an earthquake, the tremors and aftershock linger for awhile. The shaking will subside, then we can slowly lift ourselves up, clean up our "houses", gather up our scattered and strewn emotions, then work towards restrengthening and fixing the cracks in our foundation.</p><p>Time will go by and the pain will lessen.</p><p>For now, take it slowly, one step.</p><p></p><p>It will be okay.</p><p>Be very kind to yourself and do something good for you.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 681751, member: 19522"] Devastated, these are good things.[I] She is working at it. [/I]I agree with Copa, that it is good that she is feeling as she does. Remorse and regret drive us to repent and signal the need to right the wrong. It is hard to watch, but it is good. She needs to make amends for her transgression and her feelings are driving her to do this. You are still hurting. We are only human. It is a terrible thing that happened. I do not think our d cs intentionally cause us pain with the choices they make. They are caught up in whatever addiction is driving them. It still hurts us. Tremendously. Work through your feelings. Be honest with yourself. Keep posting. It is all a process. You are a person with value and worth, a mother who has been hurt by this act of your daughter. It rocks our foundation like an earthquake, the tremors and aftershock linger for awhile. The shaking will subside, then we can slowly lift ourselves up, clean up our "houses", gather up our scattered and strewn emotions, then work towards restrengthening and fixing the cracks in our foundation. Time will go by and the pain will lessen. For now, take it slowly, one step. It will be okay. Be very kind to yourself and do something good for you. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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