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Daughter 24 stole from me
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 681755" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Guilt has helped me not repeat deeds I felt were wrong.</p><p>I have so much anxiety...ugh...nobody can give it. It is there. Im not sure how useful it is</p><p>Feeling shame never stopped me from child molesting. Empathy did. I could not do something that would harm anyone. I think empathy is the key to our adult children changing toward us. And others. And love os self helps to change their bad behavior that they do to themselves.</p><p>Although name calling can be human, I dont do it without apologizing after. I dont think it is ever ok. Jmo.</p><p>Honestly, I feel shame is not useful. But I understand your context, copa.</p><p>I just cant wish shame on anyone. Maybe that is a "me only" issue. Thanks for explaining.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 681755, member: 1550"] Guilt has helped me not repeat deeds I felt were wrong. I have so much anxiety...ugh...nobody can give it. It is there. Im not sure how useful it is Feeling shame never stopped me from child molesting. Empathy did. I could not do something that would harm anyone. I think empathy is the key to our adult children changing toward us. And others. And love os self helps to change their bad behavior that they do to themselves. Although name calling can be human, I dont do it without apologizing after. I dont think it is ever ok. Jmo. Honestly, I feel shame is not useful. But I understand your context, copa. I just cant wish shame on anyone. Maybe that is a "me only" issue. Thanks for explaining. [/QUOTE]
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