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<blockquote data-quote="GoingNorth" data-source="post: 683849" data-attributes="member: 1963"><p>The thing with personality disorder treatment is that you are asking the person to literally change their personality, which is VERY hard for anyone to do.</p><p></p><p>Also, you have no idea how or if the new "healthy personality" will want anything to do with you.</p><p></p><p>I had this happen when I lived in Germany. A "friend" with borderline underwent a grueling treatment program for a year. </p><p></p><p>I called her after she graduated and asked her if she'd like to go out for dinner.</p><p></p><p>She informed that she'd learned in therapy that I was toxic, and that she never wanted to see or hear from me again!</p><p></p><p>Last I heard, she is successful in life, is married, and a grandma. Not things that would've happened without treatment.</p><p></p><p>I am happy she succeeded and is living a good life, but I do wish she'd told me WHY I was toxic as that's the first and only time I've ever been told that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GoingNorth, post: 683849, member: 1963"] The thing with personality disorder treatment is that you are asking the person to literally change their personality, which is VERY hard for anyone to do. Also, you have no idea how or if the new "healthy personality" will want anything to do with you. I had this happen when I lived in Germany. A "friend" with borderline underwent a grueling treatment program for a year. I called her after she graduated and asked her if she'd like to go out for dinner. She informed that she'd learned in therapy that I was toxic, and that she never wanted to see or hear from me again! Last I heard, she is successful in life, is married, and a grandma. Not things that would've happened without treatment. I am happy she succeeded and is living a good life, but I do wish she'd told me WHY I was toxic as that's the first and only time I've ever been told that. [/QUOTE]
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