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Daughter Crashes Vehicle for 2nd Time...
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 757107" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>CP,</p><p></p><p>I hope things have calmed down internally for you since you posted this. I'm so sorry for all you're going through. It's so difficult when they're going off the deep end. But it's important for you to stay strong. You can do this but you will need to re-fuel your inner strength. How I do this sometimes is really with just self-care. Detach immediately, even if it's for a a hour or two and pull away from the crisis at hand. I know for myself I don't think clearly when crisis happens and they say it's not good to make decisions based on "emotions" but rather make them based on what you "know". </p><p></p><p>Do something to nurture yourself and don't get caught up in the repetitive loop thoughts that keep you hurting and miserable thinking a million different things should have been done differently. Remember even on a good day, they will blame us for things that happen. I believe it's just their way of deflecting the pain inside of themselves. It's like a hot potato and they need to get rid of the responsibility of their errors and so they throw it at us.</p><p></p><p>Keep strong, get rest and take care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 757107, member: 23405"] CP, I hope things have calmed down internally for you since you posted this. I'm so sorry for all you're going through. It's so difficult when they're going off the deep end. But it's important for you to stay strong. You can do this but you will need to re-fuel your inner strength. How I do this sometimes is really with just self-care. Detach immediately, even if it's for a a hour or two and pull away from the crisis at hand. I know for myself I don't think clearly when crisis happens and they say it's not good to make decisions based on "emotions" but rather make them based on what you "know". Do something to nurture yourself and don't get caught up in the repetitive loop thoughts that keep you hurting and miserable thinking a million different things should have been done differently. Remember even on a good day, they will blame us for things that happen. I believe it's just their way of deflecting the pain inside of themselves. It's like a hot potato and they need to get rid of the responsibility of their errors and so they throw it at us. Keep strong, get rest and take care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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