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Daughter is 22 and has cut us out of her life am devastated.....
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 684058" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Im guessing she has always been difficult and lacking in responsibility and probably plain doesnt want to pay you back so she started another fight. If this isnt new behavior, perhaps she had a personality disorder...at any rate, no matter what is wrong, you cant control her but in my opinion it is not a good plan to plead and beg for her presence in your life. It will make her swell with power and she will only get worse each time she doesnt like something you say or do.</p><p></p><p>The more power you give of your life over to an entitled college kid, the worse she will abuse and punish you. Thats what she us doing. Please maintain your self-respect and dont listen to any abuse. Our difficult kids are good at fabricating fake horrible things we did to them hoping they can gain from our guilt. Ill bet you were a great parent trying your best to raise a not so easy daughter in the best way you could.</p><p></p><p>Is it possible your daughter started using drugs or drinking too much?</p><p></p><p>Get help. This is not worth your life. You matter every bit as much as your daughter does. Bet you have many loved ones. I am sorry about your parents...all I can do is shake my head sadly.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 684058, member: 1550"] Im guessing she has always been difficult and lacking in responsibility and probably plain doesnt want to pay you back so she started another fight. If this isnt new behavior, perhaps she had a personality disorder...at any rate, no matter what is wrong, you cant control her but in my opinion it is not a good plan to plead and beg for her presence in your life. It will make her swell with power and she will only get worse each time she doesnt like something you say or do. The more power you give of your life over to an entitled college kid, the worse she will abuse and punish you. Thats what she us doing. Please maintain your self-respect and dont listen to any abuse. Our difficult kids are good at fabricating fake horrible things we did to them hoping they can gain from our guilt. Ill bet you were a great parent trying your best to raise a not so easy daughter in the best way you could. Is it possible your daughter started using drugs or drinking too much? Get help. This is not worth your life. You matter every bit as much as your daughter does. Bet you have many loved ones. I am sorry about your parents...all I can do is shake my head sadly. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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