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Daughter is 22 and has cut us out of her life am devastated.....
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<blockquote data-quote="JHe17" data-source="post: 684063" data-attributes="member: 20227"><p>She has always fought against the prospect of getting a job. I am worried about her but unless she talks to us I am struggling to see how to help her? All the things you say we don't know about are very true and I don't know how to find out if she is alright anymore as she has made it very plain she doesn't want to see us. She was on some message thing to her brother the other day and he said she seemed perfectly normal.....she doesn't know that he knows what is going on as we want her to feel she has a friend in someone in the family. As for boundaries I just don't know.....haven't even thought about it.</p><p></p><p>I do think that she has suddenly realised how much money she owes not just us but with the Government Grant too and it has freaked her out and she cannot see how to pay it all back. She has a weekend job but was looking for a full time one...her rent is paid (by us) until June and then she needs to find somewhere else to live. It just is so sad.</p><p></p><p>Thank you for your advice it is really nice to feel am not alone</p><p>x</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JHe17, post: 684063, member: 20227"] She has always fought against the prospect of getting a job. I am worried about her but unless she talks to us I am struggling to see how to help her? All the things you say we don't know about are very true and I don't know how to find out if she is alright anymore as she has made it very plain she doesn't want to see us. She was on some message thing to her brother the other day and he said she seemed perfectly normal.....she doesn't know that he knows what is going on as we want her to feel she has a friend in someone in the family. As for boundaries I just don't know.....haven't even thought about it. I do think that she has suddenly realised how much money she owes not just us but with the Government Grant too and it has freaked her out and she cannot see how to pay it all back. She has a weekend job but was looking for a full time one...her rent is paid (by us) until June and then she needs to find somewhere else to live. It just is so sad. Thank you for your advice it is really nice to feel am not alone x [/QUOTE]
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