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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Kat9" data-source="post: 766694" data-attributes="member: 34173"><p>Thanks Copacabana. I had never done this to her but because I felt so emotionally vulnerable to her I did not speak to her for a couple of weeks until my medical tests were done. I had a 6 day colonoscopy prep, six days because mine was a special gentle type for people with liver issues. During all this my husband and I were real sick at home with Covid. Plus I needed to think about how I was going to deal with her and come up with a plan of what to say. I didn’t lay any blame on her. I just said it was due to my health expenses and the state of our nation causing me even more financial in stability. I’m not someone with much income. She was very mad at her brother for not taking her in, I explained to her that normal people with normal kids who have to work full time and raise their own kids can’t cope with her special needs children after they get home and deal with all the baggage that brings. That it would cause her brother to jeopardize his own relationship with his foster child and jeopardize his functionality at work. Her autistic son pees and poops on furniture and destroys things in the home. So no one can deal with that.she had gotten a cash app and I wouldn’t even give her gas money. That seems ridiculous to refuse but I know if I start that she’ll be calling multiple times a week for cash app deposits And my stress would escalate and my budget issues would escalate. I really need to drive it home to her by backing off that she can’t expect other people to take care of her and do all her work. She wants welfare money on the kids but doesn’t want to care for them properly, train them, mother them, feed them properly. She’s 50 years old. Too old to be acting this way. shes Never been ambitious, she did used to work before having the kids with special needs. But after that she decided to just live off the government And beg other people to help her take care of the kids and do her housework for her. Because she is the way she is she only attracts bad people.</p></blockquote><p></p>

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