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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 424140" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Ski...Im sorry to have to meet you under such difficult circumstances but welcome to this site and to this forum. </p><p></p><p>I am wondering, does your daughter have any mental or emotional health disorders that might cause her to be attracted to a young man such as this one? Or perhaps she is the good girl who is head over heels for the bad boy. How many movies have been based on that scenario! </p><p></p><p>Either way, I do know with teens the worst thing you can do is to attempt to forbid the relationship because that will drive them deeper together for sure. Just think romeo and juliet. </p><p></p><p>I agree wholeheartedly with you on the car. I dont let anyone drive my car except my spouse and Im not happy with that. LOL. No kids at all. Just how I am. I would never allow your daughter to drive it again after you have caught her in the lie because you could lose everything if he is caught DUI. Not pretty. I wouldnt risk it even if you adored the guy. Now on the other hand, I dont think you can stop her from seeing him if she wants to see him. I would stop being judgmental about him and start acting like you are okay about it so you know where she is all the time. If she doesnt have a cell phone, maybe get her on a prepaid plan with unlimited minutes so you can keep up with her. This is for you. You want her to tell you whats going on. </p><p></p><p>Who cares about him...keep her attached to you even if it means acting like you can stand him. Sure keep your valuables locked up when he is around but keep her trust because you want her to keep confiding in you so she doesnt attach to him in rebellion.</p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 424140, member: 1514"] Ski...Im sorry to have to meet you under such difficult circumstances but welcome to this site and to this forum. I am wondering, does your daughter have any mental or emotional health disorders that might cause her to be attracted to a young man such as this one? Or perhaps she is the good girl who is head over heels for the bad boy. How many movies have been based on that scenario! Either way, I do know with teens the worst thing you can do is to attempt to forbid the relationship because that will drive them deeper together for sure. Just think romeo and juliet. I agree wholeheartedly with you on the car. I dont let anyone drive my car except my spouse and Im not happy with that. LOL. No kids at all. Just how I am. I would never allow your daughter to drive it again after you have caught her in the lie because you could lose everything if he is caught DUI. Not pretty. I wouldnt risk it even if you adored the guy. Now on the other hand, I dont think you can stop her from seeing him if she wants to see him. I would stop being judgmental about him and start acting like you are okay about it so you know where she is all the time. If she doesnt have a cell phone, maybe get her on a prepaid plan with unlimited minutes so you can keep up with her. This is for you. You want her to tell you whats going on. Who cares about him...keep her attached to you even if it means acting like you can stand him. Sure keep your valuables locked up when he is around but keep her trust because you want her to keep confiding in you so she doesnt attach to him in rebellion. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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