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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 424244" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Hi ski just wanted to let you know I am following you thread and care about your situation. So sorry you and husband are going through this. I am an only child with the exception of a half sister I have barely known my whole life. Didn't meet my "loser" dad til i was 17. My mom also carried tremendous guilt and like your daughter I was attracted to the misunderstood bad boy. I think it comes from a core belief that you are not worthy of being loved well by dad so you try and get that "love" from another who also does not have the capacity to really love you well. </p><p></p><p>But regardless of the why's this is not your fault. </p><p>I do think daughter needs concealing though. </p><p>And like others I don't think you should kick daughter out of your home at this time but do think it fine to ban her boyfriend. He has stolen from you all... That is enough reason to ban him. I also agree with others about not verbally expressing judgement about him...I do so hope your daughter will figure this out for herself. </p><p></p><p>Hugs and hope for your family,</p><p>Tammy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 424244, member: 3305"] Hi ski just wanted to let you know I am following you thread and care about your situation. So sorry you and husband are going through this. I am an only child with the exception of a half sister I have barely known my whole life. Didn't meet my "loser" dad til i was 17. My mom also carried tremendous guilt and like your daughter I was attracted to the misunderstood bad boy. I think it comes from a core belief that you are not worthy of being loved well by dad so you try and get that "love" from another who also does not have the capacity to really love you well. But regardless of the why's this is not your fault. I do think daughter needs concealing though. And like others I don't think you should kick daughter out of your home at this time but do think it fine to ban her boyfriend. He has stolen from you all... That is enough reason to ban him. I also agree with others about not verbally expressing judgement about him...I do so hope your daughter will figure this out for herself. Hugs and hope for your family, Tammy [/QUOTE]
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