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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 424923" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>mrsammler, with all due respect; since you stated your daughters are PCs please know that advice as to handle a situation with a easy child is often very, very different than that of a difficult child. </p><p> </p><p>My difficult child was boy-crazy, sneaking,lying about boys, behaving innappoririately, from the time she was very young. There were a few occassions where it was necessary to "ban" someone (although simply not liking him was never the criterea) and in every, single case we were unable to keep her from sneaking and seeing/talking to the boy in question. Now, understand, she was between 12-16 during these siutations and we DID have to do what we had to do (ban), but it never worked. Never.</p><p> </p><p>She is now 20 and has brought some really doozies around, but - once she hit about 17 - we ceased with the bans. </p><p> </p><p>Ski, my daughter is a rescuer too. She LOOKS for guys like this and finds them with no trouble. Keep the door open and your mouth shut.</p><p> </p><p>As to the internet searches, just watch and wait. Believe me, I know how hard this is. My daughter googles all sorts of crazy stuff ... it doesn't mean she's going to do it. She might even find, through her "research", that it isn't worth it.</p><p> </p><p>Hang in there. It's so hard when they are tehcnically adults.</p><p> </p><p>Dash</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 424923, member: 9175"] mrsammler, with all due respect; since you stated your daughters are PCs please know that advice as to handle a situation with a easy child is often very, very different than that of a difficult child. My difficult child was boy-crazy, sneaking,lying about boys, behaving innappoririately, from the time she was very young. There were a few occassions where it was necessary to "ban" someone (although simply not liking him was never the criterea) and in every, single case we were unable to keep her from sneaking and seeing/talking to the boy in question. Now, understand, she was between 12-16 during these siutations and we DID have to do what we had to do (ban), but it never worked. Never. She is now 20 and has brought some really doozies around, but - once she hit about 17 - we ceased with the bans. Ski, my daughter is a rescuer too. She LOOKS for guys like this and finds them with no trouble. Keep the door open and your mouth shut. As to the internet searches, just watch and wait. Believe me, I know how hard this is. My daughter googles all sorts of crazy stuff ... it doesn't mean she's going to do it. She might even find, through her "research", that it isn't worth it. Hang in there. It's so hard when they are tehcnically adults. Dash [/QUOTE]
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