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<blockquote data-quote="ski10" data-source="post: 425206" data-attributes="member: 11845"><p>Hi Tammy,</p><p>I know there is a hole in your heart, the pain and the huge feelings of loss, I too have a special place in my heart for fatherless children, or I should say parentless children<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I just have to see a story on TV and I am bawling, yet at the same time I feel fiercely protective, wish I had a ton of money to help people.</p><p> </p><p>I was adopted as a baby, I located my bio mother several years ago, she wanted nothing to do with me, made that very clear and I felt like a piece of dirt, she also turned my 1/2 siblings against me, they all had such cruel things to say and all I wanted was to know where I came from and to "see" pictures of them, and wouldn't you just know it, I was the one who looked like bio mom the most, it took 2 1/2 years of a breakdown and therapy to come out of the I should never have been born, I am not good enough, syndrome, it all literally broke my heart in two, I know it did because I felt it. So, I know exactly how you feel, yet I have the same way of thinking, not to feel like a victim or have self-pity, to march on!</p><p> </p><p>Do not know who my bio father is... I was told I was never going to know..thank you... but bio mom's side is riddled with mental illness, I have had depression since my late teens, am on Wellbutrin, was diagnosed BiPolar (BP) then that was changed to severe depressive illness, because the Dr's said I have more depression than anything else, I am not sure what the heck I am! I had a breakdown after my daughter was born, stayed in a hospital for almost a month for depression, the depression would stay with me for months then it would suddenly lift, then it would come again, then it'd lift, I couldn't control it but with AD's am somewhat stable, lol...I say that because whenever I am under stress it hits big time, AD's or not.</p><p> </p><p>I have often wondered if my daughter has inherited anything, she is much more outgoing than I was at her age but she is depressed, won't see a therapist now but I will still try to get her to go.</p><p>I am sending you a BIG hug, and thank you for all your kind words, take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ski10, post: 425206, member: 11845"] Hi Tammy, I know there is a hole in your heart, the pain and the huge feelings of loss, I too have a special place in my heart for fatherless children, or I should say parentless children:) I just have to see a story on TV and I am bawling, yet at the same time I feel fiercely protective, wish I had a ton of money to help people. I was adopted as a baby, I located my bio mother several years ago, she wanted nothing to do with me, made that very clear and I felt like a piece of dirt, she also turned my 1/2 siblings against me, they all had such cruel things to say and all I wanted was to know where I came from and to "see" pictures of them, and wouldn't you just know it, I was the one who looked like bio mom the most, it took 2 1/2 years of a breakdown and therapy to come out of the I should never have been born, I am not good enough, syndrome, it all literally broke my heart in two, I know it did because I felt it. So, I know exactly how you feel, yet I have the same way of thinking, not to feel like a victim or have self-pity, to march on! Do not know who my bio father is... I was told I was never going to know..thank you... but bio mom's side is riddled with mental illness, I have had depression since my late teens, am on Wellbutrin, was diagnosed BiPolar (BP) then that was changed to severe depressive illness, because the Dr's said I have more depression than anything else, I am not sure what the heck I am! I had a breakdown after my daughter was born, stayed in a hospital for almost a month for depression, the depression would stay with me for months then it would suddenly lift, then it would come again, then it'd lift, I couldn't control it but with AD's am somewhat stable, lol...I say that because whenever I am under stress it hits big time, AD's or not. I have often wondered if my daughter has inherited anything, she is much more outgoing than I was at her age but she is depressed, won't see a therapist now but I will still try to get her to go. I am sending you a BIG hug, and thank you for all your kind words, take care. [/QUOTE]
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