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Decision Time - Two Lousy Choices and No Options Left...
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 458290" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You need to appeal Ms. Ally's report - and I think Insane has the right way to go about it. Most of these people would have a cow if they were investigated because they KNOW they are not doing their jobs well. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. Sadly, even as young as difficult child is, I think your only option is to start to call 911 every single time she is abusive physically or even threatens it. Yes, she won't get real helpin juvie, but your son will stand a chance at a more normal life. in my opinion there isn't much that you CAN do to help difficult child - even if you had money flowing like Bill Gates. I just don't think that she is ever going to change without quite a few years on the hard side of life (the side with prisons, homeless people, and really lousy hard jobs that don't pay much). She just is not going to improve until she finds some reason that makes it worthwhile. NOTHING you can do will do this.</p><p></p><p>I DO think that if you can keep her on medications she may have a fighting chance - but it has to get to the point where SHE is fighting for that chance, NOT YOU.</p><p></p><p>I would not spend $$ on this mentor person. No use tossing good money into a useless well. I would start spending it on special things with easy child so that HE has a chance at a more peaceful life.</p><p></p><p>And I would certainly be shouting all the way up the system that Ms Ally is a big fat liar who did NOT do her job and that the system needs to change.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 458290, member: 1233"] You need to appeal Ms. Ally's report - and I think Insane has the right way to go about it. Most of these people would have a cow if they were investigated because they KNOW they are not doing their jobs well. I am so sorry. Sadly, even as young as difficult child is, I think your only option is to start to call 911 every single time she is abusive physically or even threatens it. Yes, she won't get real helpin juvie, but your son will stand a chance at a more normal life. in my opinion there isn't much that you CAN do to help difficult child - even if you had money flowing like Bill Gates. I just don't think that she is ever going to change without quite a few years on the hard side of life (the side with prisons, homeless people, and really lousy hard jobs that don't pay much). She just is not going to improve until she finds some reason that makes it worthwhile. NOTHING you can do will do this. I DO think that if you can keep her on medications she may have a fighting chance - but it has to get to the point where SHE is fighting for that chance, NOT YOU. I would not spend $$ on this mentor person. No use tossing good money into a useless well. I would start spending it on special things with easy child so that HE has a chance at a more peaceful life. And I would certainly be shouting all the way up the system that Ms Ally is a big fat liar who did NOT do her job and that the system needs to change. [/QUOTE]
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