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Desperate Mom needing advise with adult daughter of 22 with Borderline (Borderline (BPD))
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 749976" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome! I'm glad you found us here. I'm so sorry for what you are going through.</p><p></p><p>I understand that you love your daughter deeply but it's imperative that we, as the parents do not define our own lives by our children. Your life is so much more than just your daughter. It's very easy to slip into the role of "child's mom". It is so important to make sure you are doing things for yourself. Getting involved with groups or activities that are just for you.</p><p>You will never be able to change your daughter or force her to seek therapy. What I can tell you is that enabling her behavior will only make things worse in the long run. Trust me on this, if money and enabling could solve the problem of a difficult adult child, I would have solved my sons problems ten of thousands of dollars ago.</p><p></p><p>Have you reached out to NAMI? If not, I would suggest doing so. They can offer you some direction.</p><p>Here's the link </p><p><a href="https://www.nami.org/" target="_blank">https://www.nami.org/</a></p><p></p><p>Again, I'm glad you are here with us. You are not alone in this. Keep reading and posting.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 749976, member: 18516"] Welcome! I'm glad you found us here. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I understand that you love your daughter deeply but it's imperative that we, as the parents do not define our own lives by our children. Your life is so much more than just your daughter. It's very easy to slip into the role of "child's mom". It is so important to make sure you are doing things for yourself. Getting involved with groups or activities that are just for you. You will never be able to change your daughter or force her to seek therapy. What I can tell you is that enabling her behavior will only make things worse in the long run. Trust me on this, if money and enabling could solve the problem of a difficult adult child, I would have solved my sons problems ten of thousands of dollars ago. Have you reached out to NAMI? If not, I would suggest doing so. They can offer you some direction. Here's the link [URL]https://www.nami.org/[/URL] Again, I'm glad you are here with us. You are not alone in this. Keep reading and posting. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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