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Desperate Mom needing advise with adult daughter of 22 with Borderline (Borderline (BPD))
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 750119" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Ultimately, we'll figure out that the letting go of our denial (that we can change them) is a gradual process of awakening involving going back and forth between denial, awareness and acceptance.</p><p></p><p>Where we sometimes misstep is thinking that there's even a small chance -even a minute one-that "we" will alter the outcome for our children for the better.</p><p></p><p>Any changes must come from them. Not accepting this truth impacts our serenity.</p><p></p><p>I read something recently, Beta that I think you will relate to as well. I know it helps me...</p><p></p><p>"No one wanted to rescue their son more than Mary, the mother of Jesus, when he began his journey to Calvary towards his death and</p><p>crucifixion. She had ever right to rescue her innocent son, but didn't because she was doing the will of God. She had to let God's plan play out through obedience."</p><p></p><p>"Let go and Let God" , I have to say this over and over all the time because I keep taking the responsibility back on myself and it's too much to handle.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 750119, member: 23405"] Ultimately, we'll figure out that the letting go of our denial (that we can change them) is a gradual process of awakening involving going back and forth between denial, awareness and acceptance. Where we sometimes misstep is thinking that there's even a small chance -even a minute one-that "we" will alter the outcome for our children for the better. Any changes must come from them. Not accepting this truth impacts our serenity. I read something recently, Beta that I think you will relate to as well. I know it helps me... "No one wanted to rescue their son more than Mary, the mother of Jesus, when he began his journey to Calvary towards his death and crucifixion. She had ever right to rescue her innocent son, but didn't because she was doing the will of God. She had to let God's plan play out through obedience." "Let go and Let God" , I have to say this over and over all the time because I keep taking the responsibility back on myself and it's too much to handle. [/QUOTE]
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