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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742636" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>How do you feel about the state of your marriage? Have you consideref marriage counseling?</p><p></p><p>My son has been in litigation with his ex for five years. in my opinion she is nuts and is not thinking of the best interests of my grandson at all. She ran off with another man while married to my son and disappeared for a month. She eventually married him. My son and ex have been to mediation but ex wouldnt do what mediator wanted and frankly mediation is not legal. She got into no trouble for not listening. Im not even sure the judge got a report on tje mediation.</p><p> Ex does what she wants and my son is told to deal with her. Period. He texts her on Wizard only and does not talk to her. His son has come over with bruises and nobody cares. I am not sure what you can do if husbands ex continues to insert herself into your life and nobody stops her. My son never wants to marry again partly due to her. And ex's new husband who got out of his car during an exchange and in front of his son threatened to beat him up. My grandson was hysterical.</p><p></p><p>Nobody cared. Son was accused of exaggerating. Grandson wasnt asked about it.</p><p></p><p>Its not easy. Does ypur husband have a good attorney?</p><p></p><p>I hope things can change. It is hard to be married with the ex having hernl nose in everything I am sure.</p><p></p><p>I have my own.opinion on whether the courts REALLY care about the best interests of the kids. It doesnt seem that way to me. My grandson suffers because he is terrified of stepfather and nothing can be done. My son has tried everything legal.</p><p></p><p>My son.has 50/50 visitation, joint legal and the legal address after ex tried to move out of the school district and Son fought it.</p><p></p><p>It is a mess. I hope your husband can find something he is comfortable with that makes things better.</p><p></p><p>Maybe your husband needs a new attorney. My son just changed lawyers, something I had hoped he'd do sooner. This one is more willing to fight for my grandson. The other one did very little.</p><p></p><p>Im so tired of my son's case, and he lives in another state, so I can only imagine how it is for you. I hope you can find peace with all this legal stuff in the way.</p><p></p><p>My son and his ex are informed about illnesses snd injuries on Wizard. They dont speak to each other. Im sure they would if something serious happens but not normal stuff that the parent can handle.</p><p></p><p>Again I advise marital counseling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742636, member: 1550"] How do you feel about the state of your marriage? Have you consideref marriage counseling? My son has been in litigation with his ex for five years. in my opinion she is nuts and is not thinking of the best interests of my grandson at all. She ran off with another man while married to my son and disappeared for a month. She eventually married him. My son and ex have been to mediation but ex wouldnt do what mediator wanted and frankly mediation is not legal. She got into no trouble for not listening. Im not even sure the judge got a report on tje mediation. Ex does what she wants and my son is told to deal with her. Period. He texts her on Wizard only and does not talk to her. His son has come over with bruises and nobody cares. I am not sure what you can do if husbands ex continues to insert herself into your life and nobody stops her. My son never wants to marry again partly due to her. And ex's new husband who got out of his car during an exchange and in front of his son threatened to beat him up. My grandson was hysterical. Nobody cared. Son was accused of exaggerating. Grandson wasnt asked about it. Its not easy. Does ypur husband have a good attorney? I hope things can change. It is hard to be married with the ex having hernl nose in everything I am sure. I have my own.opinion on whether the courts REALLY care about the best interests of the kids. It doesnt seem that way to me. My grandson suffers because he is terrified of stepfather and nothing can be done. My son has tried everything legal. My son.has 50/50 visitation, joint legal and the legal address after ex tried to move out of the school district and Son fought it. It is a mess. I hope your husband can find something he is comfortable with that makes things better. Maybe your husband needs a new attorney. My son just changed lawyers, something I had hoped he'd do sooner. This one is more willing to fight for my grandson. The other one did very little. Im so tired of my son's case, and he lives in another state, so I can only imagine how it is for you. I hope you can find peace with all this legal stuff in the way. My son and his ex are informed about illnesses snd injuries on Wizard. They dont speak to each other. Im sure they would if something serious happens but not normal stuff that the parent can handle. Again I advise marital counseling. [/QUOTE]
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