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Message: <blockquote data-quote="HereWeGoAgain" data-source="post: 186040" data-attributes="member: 3485">Didn't you mention that he and the boyfriend were going to go out on a fishing boat?  Maybe he went even though boyfriend stayed on shore?At any rate, I think your plan is legitimate.  You have important information to relay and there is no assurance that he will get the news unless you deliver it to him yourself.  But could it backfire by tipping off difficult child that she has something you want?  In other words, would doing the right thing by her brother and desire for more information about grandpa's condition, by themselves, be strong enough to make her give you a number, or might she say "Let me come home first"?</blockquote>