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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 352767" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>It would seem that husband needs to be dealing more with this sort of day. husband(and I assume you) appear to think that you and he can fix this child, with love, patience and tolerance. I don't think it is anywhere near enough. You will look back at all the hours and years wasted in the families life just trying to avoid physical assault and damage to property hoping that it will make difficult child realize he isn't being kind. Again, I don't think so. </p><p>So maybe husband needs to be dealing with the aggressive, abusive behavior 90% of the time instead of you and easy child. Just my .02. </p><p>I read about your days and I wonder how you can live every day like this, how the Special Education teacher can go to work everyday knowing that she/he will be assaulted and bullied by a youngster, how easy child can not be traumatized by living with this intimidating behavior. I know she is no true easy child but she lives in an abusive home and difficult child is the abuser. Granted he is mental ill but parents are supposed to protect all the family members and not just the sickest. </p><p>Maybe this is the time for husband and difficult child to live separate from you and easy child for a few months. Just a thought.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 352767, member: 3"] It would seem that husband needs to be dealing more with this sort of day. husband(and I assume you) appear to think that you and he can fix this child, with love, patience and tolerance. I don't think it is anywhere near enough. You will look back at all the hours and years wasted in the families life just trying to avoid physical assault and damage to property hoping that it will make difficult child realize he isn't being kind. Again, I don't think so. So maybe husband needs to be dealing with the aggressive, abusive behavior 90% of the time instead of you and easy child. Just my .02. I read about your days and I wonder how you can live every day like this, how the Special Education teacher can go to work everyday knowing that she/he will be assaulted and bullied by a youngster, how easy child can not be traumatized by living with this intimidating behavior. I know she is no true easy child but she lives in an abusive home and difficult child is the abuser. Granted he is mental ill but parents are supposed to protect all the family members and not just the sickest. Maybe this is the time for husband and difficult child to live separate from you and easy child for a few months. Just a thought. [/QUOTE]
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