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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 85039" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Yeah, I'm thinking so too. </p><p></p><p>I've wondered that a few times over the weeks. It ALMOST seems like you leave the door open JUST a bit for some chaos. </p><p></p><p>Problem: Son & thieving friends continue to come to house and enter without permission.</p><p></p><p>What you are doing: Nothing. And then complaining about it.</p><p></p><p>Easy solution: Change the locks on the house. Get window locks. DO NOT allow him access to the house. You have EVERY right to do that, YOUR HOME was violated, your SON was violated, and even though it was at the hands of your difficult child, it was him while IN HIS ADDICTION.</p><p></p><p>Now here is where you get hung up. You start to feel bad for him. You need to STOP. Because in the past several weeks, has he improved while living under your roof and controlling the house? No. You have GOT to let him fail before he will get help. I don't know how else to explain it. </p><p></p><p>You are going to want to do this soon. Get it out in the open, house newly secured, and have him understand he is not allowed there BEFORE the wedding. Otherwise you will not enjoy the wedding. </p><p></p><p>And, my dear, you deserve to enjoy this wedding! It is your only daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 85039, member: 3647"] Yeah, I'm thinking so too. I've wondered that a few times over the weeks. It ALMOST seems like you leave the door open JUST a bit for some chaos. Problem: Son & thieving friends continue to come to house and enter without permission. What you are doing: Nothing. And then complaining about it. Easy solution: Change the locks on the house. Get window locks. DO NOT allow him access to the house. You have EVERY right to do that, YOUR HOME was violated, your SON was violated, and even though it was at the hands of your difficult child, it was him while IN HIS ADDICTION. Now here is where you get hung up. You start to feel bad for him. You need to STOP. Because in the past several weeks, has he improved while living under your roof and controlling the house? No. You have GOT to let him fail before he will get help. I don't know how else to explain it. You are going to want to do this soon. Get it out in the open, house newly secured, and have him understand he is not allowed there BEFORE the wedding. Otherwise you will not enjoy the wedding. And, my dear, you deserve to enjoy this wedding! It is your only daughter. [/QUOTE]
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