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Disowning adult children - when is enough enough ?? any thoughts ?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 578901" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Let. Him. Go. Go to an atty and draw up a will and living will and whatever documents are needed to make sure he is not ever in charge of your children. Some kids just cannot be helped, they will play along with the rules to get something, but when they have it, they revert to bad ways. You did all you could and then some.</p><p></p><p>I hope that family really understands that you tried really HARD to let them know that he was dangerous and they ignored info that could have spared their children years of abuse. I hope someday they can understand how hard that was for you. Do whatever you and your children need, and do not count him among your kids. The nice bit is a facade to get something from you. He will have more than a few people to 'game' in prison and you should leave him to whatever future he chooses there. I hope that your state is like mine and parole after ten yrs iwth charges like that is not just highly unlikely, it is nearly impossible. The children in our world don't deserve to have him walking free ever. If you are up to it, go to his parole hearina nd speak against htem. THe family he hurt might also do this, if they are up to it. It is a big factor in if parole is granted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 578901, member: 1233"] Let. Him. Go. Go to an atty and draw up a will and living will and whatever documents are needed to make sure he is not ever in charge of your children. Some kids just cannot be helped, they will play along with the rules to get something, but when they have it, they revert to bad ways. You did all you could and then some. I hope that family really understands that you tried really HARD to let them know that he was dangerous and they ignored info that could have spared their children years of abuse. I hope someday they can understand how hard that was for you. Do whatever you and your children need, and do not count him among your kids. The nice bit is a facade to get something from you. He will have more than a few people to 'game' in prison and you should leave him to whatever future he chooses there. I hope that your state is like mine and parole after ten yrs iwth charges like that is not just highly unlikely, it is nearly impossible. The children in our world don't deserve to have him walking free ever. If you are up to it, go to his parole hearina nd speak against htem. THe family he hurt might also do this, if they are up to it. It is a big factor in if parole is granted. [/QUOTE]
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