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Disowning adult children - when is enough enough ?? any thoughts ?
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<blockquote data-quote="jisduit" data-source="post: 579064" data-attributes="member: 5095"><p>thanks for all the replies - I am finally beginning to feel that deep gut feeling that I am making the right decision - I am so glad I came here to get you alls input. </p><p>Susie - he is getting 120 years but 110 are being suspended - after 10 will he actually have to have a parole hearing ?</p><p>To be honest I was thinking to myself - well I will have ten years to move somewhere so he cant find us - I am afraid of him - he has no remorse, empathy - my counselor refers his as a psycopath - I truely believe he is capable of blowing me a way just for the hell of it. Oh and as far as those families of prisioners sites - I went there already and you are right - dont plan on going back - dont think they like me so much anymore anyways when I said I wanted to disown him.</p><p>Tired - yeah he uses that I am gonna kill myself threat all the time - the last time - I thought to myself - dam I have to get that loan on his life insurance paid off - just reminded me of what I had to do. I dont think he will - he is too much of a whimp but I do believe that he will be the subject of some beatings in the correctional system.</p><p>I will be seeing my counselor next week. I think I am handeling everything rather well with the exception of how my easy child son is handling it - he doesnt know why I need to talk to people about it and doesnt want to know anything - in his mind his brother doesnt exist.</p><p>Thanks again people</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jisduit, post: 579064, member: 5095"] thanks for all the replies - I am finally beginning to feel that deep gut feeling that I am making the right decision - I am so glad I came here to get you alls input. Susie - he is getting 120 years but 110 are being suspended - after 10 will he actually have to have a parole hearing ? To be honest I was thinking to myself - well I will have ten years to move somewhere so he cant find us - I am afraid of him - he has no remorse, empathy - my counselor refers his as a psycopath - I truely believe he is capable of blowing me a way just for the hell of it. Oh and as far as those families of prisioners sites - I went there already and you are right - dont plan on going back - dont think they like me so much anymore anyways when I said I wanted to disown him. Tired - yeah he uses that I am gonna kill myself threat all the time - the last time - I thought to myself - dam I have to get that loan on his life insurance paid off - just reminded me of what I had to do. I dont think he will - he is too much of a whimp but I do believe that he will be the subject of some beatings in the correctional system. I will be seeing my counselor next week. I think I am handeling everything rather well with the exception of how my easy child son is handling it - he doesnt know why I need to talk to people about it and doesnt want to know anything - in his mind his brother doesnt exist. Thanks again people [/QUOTE]
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