I agree w InsaneCdn, Echo, Headlights, and all others who have spoken about creating distance but not permanently disowning. Permanent might work and be necessary for some parents, but I'm not there yet. Haven't even mentioned it to my son, butin my own heart I am taking a break from him. I expect that we will have contact in the future, in public places.
By the way, my first post (only a week or so ago) was in response to a thread that already had the "Disowning... Any Thoughts?" title. (Not my title.) apparently that conversation had died and I inadvertently brought it back to life. There was some very good stuff there!
