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Disowning adult children - when is enough enough ?? any thoughts ?
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<blockquote data-quote="Estranged2015" data-source="post: 648338" data-attributes="member: 18760"><p>This is so terribly sad. My heart goes out to you, frustrated mom. </p><p></p><p>You have done the best thing. I will be thinking about following your example. </p><p></p><p>Just last year I made a will so that my son couldn't turn my possessions into money for drugs when I am gone. The lawyer suggested that I have a trusted executor sell everything, then make some bequests and put whatever's left into a trust from which the executor can directly pay toward Difficult Child's rent and food. I went with that. </p><p></p><p>Now not sure it's not just another form of ensbling, what do you think? What do others here think? Perhaps I should not help him at all? That would be so sad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Estranged2015, post: 648338, member: 18760"] This is so terribly sad. My heart goes out to you, frustrated mom. You have done the best thing. I will be thinking about following your example. Just last year I made a will so that my son couldn't turn my possessions into money for drugs when I am gone. The lawyer suggested that I have a trusted executor sell everything, then make some bequests and put whatever's left into a trust from which the executor can directly pay toward Difficult Child's rent and food. I went with that. Now not sure it's not just another form of ensbling, what do you think? What do others here think? Perhaps I should not help him at all? That would be so sad. [/QUOTE]
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