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Disrespect towards parents why is it?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 722806" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>In the same family some kids can be very respectful, while some can be jerks. There is no easy formula. I think psychiatry has evolved to realize that there are no pat answers. What we mirror gor them, they do not always do. Period.</p><p></p><p>One thing I personally believe, and dont know if its true, is that we as people must stand against abuse, especially our judgmental adult kids. It is crazy to try to please them for being mean. I stopped that long ago and my oldest is much more respectful now. If he is disrespetful, I give him three days to cool off and will not talk to him before that. If he does it again, it is six days.</p><p></p><p>Usually he is very kind after the three day hiatus. I do not accept abuse. It matters not how much I love them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 722806, member: 1550"] In the same family some kids can be very respectful, while some can be jerks. There is no easy formula. I think psychiatry has evolved to realize that there are no pat answers. What we mirror gor them, they do not always do. Period. One thing I personally believe, and dont know if its true, is that we as people must stand against abuse, especially our judgmental adult kids. It is crazy to try to please them for being mean. I stopped that long ago and my oldest is much more respectful now. If he is disrespetful, I give him three days to cool off and will not talk to him before that. If he does it again, it is six days. Usually he is very kind after the three day hiatus. I do not accept abuse. It matters not how much I love them. [/QUOTE]
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