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Does anyone remember "Goodnight, Moon"?
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 36364" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Karen and Suz, I just always have something to say and I have been so negative lately that I was going to take a break.</p><p></p><p>I do need this board and I am glad you all are here, I didn't want to keep sharing such negative thoughts is all.</p><p></p><p>Barbara, I was trying to explain why I thought we didn't celebrate the liives of our difficult children.</p><p></p><p>I was talking about church, and the grocery store,wal-mart,school principal,football coach,youth minister,difficult child's old "good" friends,sunday school teacher,neighbors,the whole shabang!</p><p></p><p>Little by little all these people and I quit mentioning my son's name.</p><p>We still all see one another and everyone asks How is easy child? but my difficult child is a silent memory that is not brought up.</p><p></p><p>That is what I was trying to explain with the snowball getting larger and larger, his name is never brought up anymore.</p><p></p><p>Just know without me going there ~ Most all the pros. I sought help from just left me with more questions and no answers.</p><p></p><p>That is why our difficult children lives are not celebrated.</p><p></p><p>To this day, if I go to easy child's school, the principal just shakes his head. We could never talk about all the great things my difficult child did before he took a wrong turn.</p><p></p><p>It seems only in death do we celebrate one's life</p><p></p><p>Don't get me wrong, I think we should.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 36364, member: 2389"] Karen and Suz, I just always have something to say and I have been so negative lately that I was going to take a break. I do need this board and I am glad you all are here, I didn't want to keep sharing such negative thoughts is all. Barbara, I was trying to explain why I thought we didn't celebrate the liives of our difficult children. I was talking about church, and the grocery store,wal-mart,school principal,football coach,youth minister,difficult child's old "good" friends,sunday school teacher,neighbors,the whole shabang! Little by little all these people and I quit mentioning my son's name. We still all see one another and everyone asks How is easy child? but my difficult child is a silent memory that is not brought up. That is what I was trying to explain with the snowball getting larger and larger, his name is never brought up anymore. Just know without me going there ~ Most all the pros. I sought help from just left me with more questions and no answers. That is why our difficult children lives are not celebrated. To this day, if I go to easy child's school, the principal just shakes his head. We could never talk about all the great things my difficult child did before he took a wrong turn. It seems only in death do we celebrate one's life Don't get me wrong, I think we should. [/QUOTE]
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