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~~Does letting go every get easier???~~
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<blockquote data-quote="ScentofCedar" data-source="post: 84042" data-attributes="member: 3353"><p>However our situations with our children evolved, there comes a time when we realize that the best thing we can do for them now is to be as strong and healthy ourselves as we know how to be. For so many of us, this means taking a class or a vacation (or even, a night out with friends where the subject is not the difficult child).</p><p></p><p>You cannot know which steps to take next, or how to wrap your innermost self around the situation as it now exists without perspective.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like this has been a long, hard journey.</p><p></p><p>Letting go does not actually exist. What we can learn though, is how to walk the paths we have to walk without destroying ourselves with guilt or remorse. If you have not visited the detachment site yet, that is a good place to start. That site is listed at the bottom of my post.</p><p></p><p>Wishing well.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ScentofCedar, post: 84042, member: 3353"] However our situations with our children evolved, there comes a time when we realize that the best thing we can do for them now is to be as strong and healthy ourselves as we know how to be. For so many of us, this means taking a class or a vacation (or even, a night out with friends where the subject is not the difficult child). You cannot know which steps to take next, or how to wrap your innermost self around the situation as it now exists without perspective. It sounds like this has been a long, hard journey. Letting go does not actually exist. What we can learn though, is how to walk the paths we have to walk without destroying ourselves with guilt or remorse. If you have not visited the detachment site yet, that is a good place to start. That site is listed at the bottom of my post. Wishing well. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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