At first I thought it was helping her out -- she took mine car hunting and then to look for an apartment, which was fine by me. Heck, I'd do the same for someone if I knew the area better. But this come meet my kids and then spend the night makes me really uncomfortable.
Still haven't heard from her today, so have no idea what will happen when she finally comes home. I'm going to a friend's house this evening and will be locking up the house so that she can't get in and take things when I'm not there. It's not that I don't trust her, it's just that I know her. sigh