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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 442876" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>If wife is done with him she needs to seek a temporary custody order asap, like in tomorrow. She can go to any domestic violence shelter and do this for free. Actually a restraining order or order of protection may also be a good idea. As it doesn't appear difficult child is handling her breaking up with him very well. Last thing that needs to happen is for him to take possession of the grandbaby in a fit of selfishness or spite. </p><p></p><p>Nichole and her husband split up last spring over my bff's death. Nichole had the good sense to leave Aubrey with her husband, since the person she chose to be with is a psychopath. Her husband did a good job keeping Aubrey out of the drama that took place over those few weeks of hades on earth. Mom had to really stick her nose into the fire and put my foot down when Nichole got a wild hair up her fanny to spite her husband and move Aubrey in where she was staying. I told her that Aubrey's daddy might not be able to stop her........they weren't married and he didn't have legal custody........but I MOST CERTAINLY would if I had to snatch Aubrey up myself and bring cps into it for child endangerment. THAT got her attention in a huge way. Actually I think that is what snapped her back to reality. Because I've always been her biggest supporter where Aubrey is concerned. That and she knew I wasn't kidding. </p><p></p><p>I know it's really hard to watch. I had to watch it with Nichole and her husband. I had to listen to both sides too which was just peachy, ugh. FINALLY I managed to get them to actually talk to each other, instead of other people. But then there were no addictions involved either to make it more complicated. </p><p></p><p>Give your daughter in law the above advice to keep grandbaby safe and let the rest play out with difficult child taking his lumps. It's hard to watch....but you never know......maybe this will be enough to motivate him into rehab for real.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 442876, member: 84"] If wife is done with him she needs to seek a temporary custody order asap, like in tomorrow. She can go to any domestic violence shelter and do this for free. Actually a restraining order or order of protection may also be a good idea. As it doesn't appear difficult child is handling her breaking up with him very well. Last thing that needs to happen is for him to take possession of the grandbaby in a fit of selfishness or spite. Nichole and her husband split up last spring over my bff's death. Nichole had the good sense to leave Aubrey with her husband, since the person she chose to be with is a psychopath. Her husband did a good job keeping Aubrey out of the drama that took place over those few weeks of hades on earth. Mom had to really stick her nose into the fire and put my foot down when Nichole got a wild hair up her fanny to spite her husband and move Aubrey in where she was staying. I told her that Aubrey's daddy might not be able to stop her........they weren't married and he didn't have legal custody........but I MOST CERTAINLY would if I had to snatch Aubrey up myself and bring cps into it for child endangerment. THAT got her attention in a huge way. Actually I think that is what snapped her back to reality. Because I've always been her biggest supporter where Aubrey is concerned. That and she knew I wasn't kidding. I know it's really hard to watch. I had to watch it with Nichole and her husband. I had to listen to both sides too which was just peachy, ugh. FINALLY I managed to get them to actually talk to each other, instead of other people. But then there were no addictions involved either to make it more complicated. Give your daughter in law the above advice to keep grandbaby safe and let the rest play out with difficult child taking his lumps. It's hard to watch....but you never know......maybe this will be enough to motivate him into rehab for real. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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