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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 8197" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Melissa and Kfld ~ Maybe you two are right. I just was really taken back by the way the two of them acted. I learned (afterthefact) that when he was calm and really talking to me he was high on cocaine.</p><p>I am just waiting, I was prepared to tell him to get his stuff and leave yet, he has called in each night. Barbie asked me if he was calling, she said that she had been reminding him to call.</p><p>Like I said in the earlier post, I was trying to determine why he had such a drastic change. When he called on a weekend to say he was coming home, I just lay in the bed with all sorts of thoughts running through my head. This is a difficult child that believes you are supposed to be partying on the weekend, when he was here, we never saw him on the weekend.</p><p>Then, I thought, Did he feel ashamed at all about the things he has done wrong and now that he has found a job he feels better? I mean he has been gone pretty much since we went to court. All he has told me when I question him is I got this mom, let me do it.</p><p>Then of course is the other thoughts. Are him and barbie high? Did they come by to eat? Is the reason they seemed so at home was because they were in a drug induced calmness?</p><p>I am just waiting, I guess my wondering what is really going on should be put on the back burner.</p><p></p><p>Melissa I am going on with my life, we no longer bend under difficult child pressures and needs. We are enjoying the break we are having, honestly I enjoyed him being here for that day. He was very pleasent. I guess that is why I have so many red flags ~ dealing with him is not usually pleasent. The last time he was home and pleasent to be around is when I found out he was being so nice because he was high on coke.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 8197, member: 2389"] Melissa and Kfld ~ Maybe you two are right. I just was really taken back by the way the two of them acted. I learned (afterthefact) that when he was calm and really talking to me he was high on cocaine. I am just waiting, I was prepared to tell him to get his stuff and leave yet, he has called in each night. Barbie asked me if he was calling, she said that she had been reminding him to call. Like I said in the earlier post, I was trying to determine why he had such a drastic change. When he called on a weekend to say he was coming home, I just lay in the bed with all sorts of thoughts running through my head. This is a difficult child that believes you are supposed to be partying on the weekend, when he was here, we never saw him on the weekend. Then, I thought, Did he feel ashamed at all about the things he has done wrong and now that he has found a job he feels better? I mean he has been gone pretty much since we went to court. All he has told me when I question him is I got this mom, let me do it. Then of course is the other thoughts. Are him and barbie high? Did they come by to eat? Is the reason they seemed so at home was because they were in a drug induced calmness? I am just waiting, I guess my wondering what is really going on should be put on the back burner. Melissa I am going on with my life, we no longer bend under difficult child pressures and needs. We are enjoying the break we are having, honestly I enjoyed him being here for that day. He was very pleasent. I guess that is why I have so many red flags ~ dealing with him is not usually pleasent. The last time he was home and pleasent to be around is when I found out he was being so nice because he was high on coke. [/QUOTE]
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