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<blockquote data-quote="Across The Pond" data-source="post: 755440" data-attributes="member: 24932"><p>Overwhelmed</p><p></p><p>There is probably a very understandable reason why you were the peacekeeper in your family. Sometimes family roles are unconsciously thrust on us and are not something we would chose for ourselves, but it keeps the family 'stable'.</p><p></p><p>Awareness can help us step out of our roles and ask 'is this working for ME any longer ?' It was hurtful to you when your family members were not there for you. It sounds like you decided to make changes by not doing all the running anymore around your family.</p><p></p><p>I hope you are able to start little by little talking about you. It has certainly helped me love myself a bit more. If people do not listen, you can try find somebody who will. I certainly would want to listen to you. You are a caring human being. You deserve to find happiness, joy and contentment. We are all trying to make sense of the world around us and ourselves; always a work in progress !</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Across The Pond, post: 755440, member: 24932"] Overwhelmed There is probably a very understandable reason why you were the peacekeeper in your family. Sometimes family roles are unconsciously thrust on us and are not something we would chose for ourselves, but it keeps the family 'stable'. Awareness can help us step out of our roles and ask 'is this working for ME any longer ?' It was hurtful to you when your family members were not there for you. It sounds like you decided to make changes by not doing all the running anymore around your family. I hope you are able to start little by little talking about you. It has certainly helped me love myself a bit more. If people do not listen, you can try find somebody who will. I certainly would want to listen to you. You are a caring human being. You deserve to find happiness, joy and contentment. We are all trying to make sense of the world around us and ourselves; always a work in progress ! [/QUOTE]
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