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Message: <blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 429434" data-attributes="member: 1550">We actually never accused our daughter of using drugs until we were sure. That was over a year into her drug use and the drug use had accelerated by then. Even though we had proof, she still threw a fit and said that we had invaded her privacy and that the drugs were just "for a friend"  (a typical line, by the way). Withdrawing to the room is one thing...I had a son who did that when he became thirteen. He was just trying to be more independent and was less interested in doing things with the family. But he never disappeared. THAT is the red flag for me as far as drugs...as well as skipping school. I hope whatever you choose to do works out best.</blockquote>