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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 187034" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Wiz is sure he doesnt' have the patience to be a dad, good or bad. </p><p> </p><p>Jess wants kids. Says she is pretty sure she will have a difficult child, but she will figure out ways to cope.</p><p> </p><p>thank you, well, he thinks girls are icky so he is sure he won't have kids. I plan to remind him of this logic when his is older. He flat out told me this when he heard jessie say something about "when we all grow up and have kids". </p><p> </p><p>I think that time and biology may change your easy child's mind. There are a whole lot of factors that go into whether or not each of us wants a child, and into whether or not we have children.</p><p> </p><p>You might ask questions to get her to think in-depth about it. I can remember being about 17 and telling my mom I didn't want to have kids because I might give them all this physical garbage. My mom asked me if I thought she should have not had me. My response was that she couldn't have known. </p><p> </p><p>Her answer to that was that I couldn't either. No one can know ahead of time what life holds for their children.</p><p> </p><p>Also, I know that I had NO say as far as having kids - god (or whatever you call your higher power) planned it all. Wiz and Jess were conceived with the help of 2 kinds of birth control AND the pill. thank you was conceived with the use of 2 kinds of birth control but with-o the pill. So, really, it was WAY out of my hands. Or husband's.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 187034, member: 1233"] Wiz is sure he doesnt' have the patience to be a dad, good or bad. Jess wants kids. Says she is pretty sure she will have a difficult child, but she will figure out ways to cope. thank you, well, he thinks girls are icky so he is sure he won't have kids. I plan to remind him of this logic when his is older. He flat out told me this when he heard jessie say something about "when we all grow up and have kids". I think that time and biology may change your easy child's mind. There are a whole lot of factors that go into whether or not each of us wants a child, and into whether or not we have children. You might ask questions to get her to think in-depth about it. I can remember being about 17 and telling my mom I didn't want to have kids because I might give them all this physical garbage. My mom asked me if I thought she should have not had me. My response was that she couldn't have known. Her answer to that was that I couldn't either. No one can know ahead of time what life holds for their children. Also, I know that I had NO say as far as having kids - god (or whatever you call your higher power) planned it all. Wiz and Jess were conceived with the help of 2 kinds of birth control AND the pill. thank you was conceived with the use of 2 kinds of birth control but with-o the pill. So, really, it was WAY out of my hands. Or husband's. [/QUOTE]
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