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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 650841" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>You know I wander, if( maybe <em>when</em> really) he does go to a hospital, how long will it take him to act up? Will he? I am watching him and trying to see anymore trigures so I can tell the Dr when we are in therapy. Its just the littlest things that set him off, as if he is mad he doesnt get his way and doesnt care what he does or says to us- irritable a lot , or is it that he really is mentally being where he cant accept things like an outing may change because of an emergency or not. I know, that's what the therapy is for! I am exhausted from his tantrums, they just wear me out so bad I cant do much after. He cant function in life like this. We cant either <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Now, he is blowing up over friends not coming ( mine or his) so, its not just targeted at us and the rest of my family. In many ways my son is really smart, esp when it comes to fixing things or figuring out whats wrong say with the toilet. I was on my second day trying to figure it out, he looked in and told me what it was, second time- different issue!! I just want him to use that part of his brain all the time!</p><p></p><p>Gpa, oh boy I am not even going to say what my aunt said! I was focused on my kids before I took in full time with gpa, but adding to the mix, my kids were ok , safe, taken care of, still getting help, but yes, less time. It was too much it really was. My son is like 3 or so kids in one sometimes, so Im busy for sure <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>I think Im ready to post on others posts, I just dont want to say the wrong thing, but I feel everything I have been through as my kids and family, I do have something to offer, at least a shoulder, other parents , esp new members might be in a similar dilemma as me, but wont say as much as I did( yes I got a big mouth and love to yap) I just want them to know how Im still pushing for my kids to be ok, and our paths takes different routes but we are all here for the same reason overall. Our kids. Nobody agrees on everything and thats ok, you all are great and you know what? Im ok too. </p><p></p><p>I think you and your husband are both right! Both amazing and unselfish answers!( growing up in a family where they told you what to grad in and who to be with- no not my dad or mom) I smiled when I saw your answers. </p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 650841, member: 18100"] You know I wander, if( maybe [I]when[/I] really) he does go to a hospital, how long will it take him to act up? Will he? I am watching him and trying to see anymore trigures so I can tell the Dr when we are in therapy. Its just the littlest things that set him off, as if he is mad he doesnt get his way and doesnt care what he does or says to us- irritable a lot , or is it that he really is mentally being where he cant accept things like an outing may change because of an emergency or not. I know, that's what the therapy is for! I am exhausted from his tantrums, they just wear me out so bad I cant do much after. He cant function in life like this. We cant either :( Now, he is blowing up over friends not coming ( mine or his) so, its not just targeted at us and the rest of my family. In many ways my son is really smart, esp when it comes to fixing things or figuring out whats wrong say with the toilet. I was on my second day trying to figure it out, he looked in and told me what it was, second time- different issue!! I just want him to use that part of his brain all the time! Gpa, oh boy I am not even going to say what my aunt said! I was focused on my kids before I took in full time with gpa, but adding to the mix, my kids were ok , safe, taken care of, still getting help, but yes, less time. It was too much it really was. My son is like 3 or so kids in one sometimes, so Im busy for sure :) I think Im ready to post on others posts, I just dont want to say the wrong thing, but I feel everything I have been through as my kids and family, I do have something to offer, at least a shoulder, other parents , esp new members might be in a similar dilemma as me, but wont say as much as I did( yes I got a big mouth and love to yap) I just want them to know how Im still pushing for my kids to be ok, and our paths takes different routes but we are all here for the same reason overall. Our kids. Nobody agrees on everything and thats ok, you all are great and you know what? Im ok too. I think you and your husband are both right! Both amazing and unselfish answers!( growing up in a family where they told you what to grad in and who to be with- no not my dad or mom) I smiled when I saw your answers. :hugs: [/QUOTE]
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